Could there be ‘magic’ words you can use in getting your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds unbelievable but YES there are words that will get your ex to actually WANT to call you back.
Cool huh?…
This is one of the most common problems in trying to work on a broken relationship is getting messages returned.
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WARNING!
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Using this technique alone, without an Overall Relationship Strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.
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What NOT to Say!
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There are several things that will not get her to call you back.
There are two common strategies that will keep her from calling you back. These strategies will not work.
PLEADING your case…. This will not work. There is no attraction to an ex who keeps pleading his or her case. This is beating a dead dog. Do not do say “Jon I have to talk to you, this is the third time I have called —PLease Please call me back.”
EMERGENCY call back…. Do not cry wolf and say “Jon this is an Emergency, Please call back immediately.” If it is an emergency you can leave a message and actually tell them what the emergency is. “I miss you is not an emergency.”
Use Curiosity and Self Interest
Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are Curiosity and Self Interest.
And here’s the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work like Magic
So…
Let’s look at what you can say that works almost EVERY TIME.
“Hi Jon. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to Thank you in person.”
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.
Now…
Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.
It can be any small thing…but needs to be real.
But more importantly…
Please have an overall strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.
If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.
Okay?
What I am saying is…
What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.
Make sense?
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Have a PLAN!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, you will get the steps to lay out a complete strategy. The Magic of Making Up is a great relationship saving plan. Check out the Free Video advice.